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I lost my best friend for life two years and one month ago -- my momma. The experience changed my perspective on a lot of things: love, honesty, faith, wisdom, truth, happiness, sadness, virtuosity, joy. I'm not suffering. I'm not depressed and crying and lamenting the wrong I've done. Yet, I always find myself reflecting on things I've done to figure out how best to use that wisdom to continue to grow and to share what I've learned.

Monday, December 19, 2011

My (Short) Journey to the Alter - Part 3: He's Got a Temper

We met a couple of months ago. We were engaged before I had the directions to his house down. We're less than 2 months from tying the knot - if he gets his way - but I will NOT forget that we are still in rehearsal. . But he did. I'm in this. . don't get me wrong. . I've committed to the idea of tying myself to another human being for a lifetime. . But I'm no fool. I'm not going to tie myself to some crazy lunatic who does not have his shit together. ' This evening I saw some qualities that I didn't like. He has a temper. And I don't think I saw all of it. I think he checked himself because (at the last minute) he realized that he was in rehearsal, and had lost some cool points. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm, yeah Dude. He left. . hopefully to get his head together. When he returns we'll pull it together and get back to this rehearsal. No harm no foul if he plays his cards right. . But these are the moments we need to have because if he was perfect for four months I'd probably chicken out. So, this is good. . I'm OK. But you better believe I'm going to work this incident for all it's worth. . LOL. . Back to rehearsing my lines. . Life is lovely!

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